The most interesting party might be at Shea Stadium but I'm not sure I can handle the entire history of the world.
This list is not ranked, order of listing is random so don't think higher means better.
Michael T & Theo bring back Rated-X for NYE. This will be fun for sure.
$6 before Midnight! Joanna Angel & the Burning Angel girls. I mean Joanna's naked ass is on the flyer so you kinda already know what you're in for with this one.
Famous Friends crew. Not cheap but the 2 hour open bar makes up for it.
FREE!!! That's rare for NYE.
The Cake Shop show looks particularly good but it all sounds fun (and cheap). NY Night Train parties never fail...and there's 3 on NYE!